Y tu mamá también (2001): Sexuality Running Amok and the Road to Self-Discovery
In this episode of Sex, Bodies, and Cinema, Jason and Ashley dive into Alfonso Cuarón’s Y tu mamá también (2001), a provocative coming-of-age road trip film that follows two teenage boys, Julio (Gael García Bernal) and Tenoch (Diego Luna), who embark on a journey to the coast with a much older woman, Luisa (Maribel Verdú). Set against the backdrop of political upheaval in Mexico, the film explores themes of sexual exploration, power dynamics, and the complexities of youth, identity, and human connection.
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of sexuality, power, and the complexities of relationships that may be triggering or sensitive for some listeners.
Hosts:
Jason Goode is a Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
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Topics Discussed:
[05:00] Jason and Ashley’s initial reactions to the film's blend of raw sexuality and political commentary.
[12:00] The immaturity of Julio and Tenoch: how their sexual desires conflict with their moral compass and expectations.
[18:30] The character of Luisa and her role as both a mentor and lover—what does she teach the boys through her actions and choices?
[27:00] The road trip as a metaphor for self-discovery and the turbulence of adolescence. [35:00] The tension between freedom and consequence: How the boys’ reckless behavior ultimately shapes their paths.
[45:00] Power dynamics in Y Tu Mamá También: how both characters and society struggle with power, control, and independence.
[52:00] The film’s portrayal of Mexico—politically, socially, and culturally—and how it influences the characters’ journeys.
[1:00:00] A deep dive into the final moments of the film, where the boys’ youth and inexperience clash with the realities of life and loss.
[1:10:00] The wisdom and grace of Luisa: how her life choices and final moments provide clarity for the boys and viewers alike.
Additional Resources:
Y tu mama tambien on IMDB.
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Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects related to sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking discussions.
Produced by: Jason Goode
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