Nurtured through self-awareness,
steady practice and humility.

To relate well is a gift,

The Story Behind Soma Relating

Soma Relating was born from a real, lived experience—one where two people discovered what was possible when all parts of themselves—yes, even the uncertain, scared, and messy parts—were welcomed and understood.

The lesson? Strong, fulfilling relationships don’t just happen.
They’re created with mutual intention, reciprocity and commitment.

Kiki & Jason didn’t have a perfect roadmap, but they kept showing up. They co-created a thriving partnership, business, and blended family—one built on core values and clear agreements.

Our Core Values

✔ Self-Responsibility

Each person is responsible for their own happiness, fulfillment, and emotional well-being

✔ Clear Communication

Asking for what you need, setting boundaries, and respecting your partner’s space are non-negotiables

✔ Authentic Consent

Staying in consent with ourselves and saying No when we mean it makes our Yes more meaningful

✔ Emotional Regulation

Learning to manage emotions, triggers, and nervous system responses is key to co-creating
a relationship built on trust and safety

✔ Welcome All Parts of Yourself & Each Other

No part of you should feel exiled or hidden in your relationship. We actively work to allow all parts to be expressed and honored.

Meet Kiki & Jason

We’re partners in life, business, and this mission to help others build the relationships they truly want

Jason Goode is a multi-passionate father of three, Somatic Sex Educator, and third-year Somatic Experiencing trainee. He is passionate about helping people step into the deepest parts of their lives with courage—so they can find freedom and joy on the other side.

Kiki Grace is a self-awareness-obsessed bonus-Mom of three, a Somatic Integration coach and Human Design reader (in training). She helps people see and embody themselves clearly, build emotional resilience, and embody their most authentic selves—no matter where they are on their journey.

Why Soma Relating is Different

 ✔ We Don’t Wait for
Conflict to Build Up

Most couples start working on their relationship after things go wrong. We help you build trust, clarity, and communication before it gets to that point

✔ No Vague Advice—
Just Practical Tools

We focus on clear agreements, boundary and limit-setting, and practical communication skills that work in real life—not just in theory

✔ We Help You Take
Self-Ownership

Relationships flourish when both individuals take responsibility for their roles. We help you learn to manage your triggers, regulate your nervous systems, and establish self-care routines that work for you

✔ Personalized,
Not One-Size-Fits-All

Every relationship is unique. Whether you require structured agreements, emotional healing, or communication tools, we help you discover what suits your specific needs.

Our Approach:

We understand that every relationship has three core layers happening at the same time:

  1. The relationship you each have with yourself:
    How you each manage emotions, express your needs, and show up as your whole selves

  2. The relationship you have with one other:
    How you communicate, hold space for and support each other and resolve conflict

  3. The relationship and future you’re building together:
    The shared vision, co-created agreements, structures, and intentional choices that shape your partnership.

We help you navigate all three—so your relationship feels balanced, supportive, and connected.

By Doing Things Different,
We Help Our Clients

✔ Save their energy for what really matters

(because who wants to argue about chores, anyway?).

✔ Enjoy deeper intimacy—emotionally, mentally, and physically.
✔ Break free from repetitive conflict cycles and unhealthy communication habits.
✔ Feel confident setting and respecting boundaries—without guilt.
✔ Learn to communicate openly and clearly without fear of conflict.
✔ Co-create a partnership that feels nourishing and fulfilling.