Nurtured through self-awareness, steady practice and humility.
To relate well is a gift,
Finally, the practical and straightforward
guidance you’ve been yearning for.
Soma Relating began as two people had an embodied experience where all parts of themselves (yes, even the scared and shame-filled parts) were allowed to be expressed, welcomed and honoured.
Their imagined and desired relationship was possible.
Despite their messy, unhealed, and human ways, they continued to show up and co-create a thriving partnership, business and blended family committed to a few core values and agreements.
These core values and agreements are:
Each person is wholly and entirely responsible for themselves and the happiness and fulfillment they seek.
Each person is responsible for asking for what they need, want, and desire while maintaining their own boundaries and limits with honesty and integrity.
3. Each person is responsible for staying in full consent with themselves and saying No often so that their Yes has the power and meaning it’s meant to have.
4. Each person will work with somatic-based healing modalities (like Somatic Experiencing, plant medicines and ecstatic dance) to help regulate and re-pattern their nervous system’s reactions, creating space for conscious choice and intentional responses.
5. They invite all parts of themselves and each other into their relationship, where no part is exiled or hidden.
Now, they’re on a mission to help conscious-minded folks
TAKE COMPLETE RESPONSIBILITY
for pursuing what they want and need in their relational lives,
to experience the more beautiful reality their hearts know is possible.
So, who exactly are these two?
Hi! We’re Jason Goode, a multi-passionate, 3-daughter-dad, somatic sex educator, and somatic experiencing practitioner (in training) who loves to walk with people into the edgiest parts of their lives to help them find freedom and joy on the other side.
And… Kiki Grace, an unconventional, self-awareness-obsessed Somatic Integration coach and Human Design reader (in training) who loves to help people see themselves clearly and embody the ultimate portrayal of their authentic selves, regardless of how scared or ashamed they may currently feel.
We co-created Soma Healing
to merge our expertise in a dynamic
and integrative collaboration.
Together, we skillfully guide clients through the vibrant, ever-evolving journey of building a thriving, fulfilling and deeply connected partnership.
We teach folks how to ask for what they want, set clear boundaries and limits, and make solid agreements in their relationships.
Alongside this, we coach them to tune into their bodies to regulate their nervous system and emotional responses, build resilience, and make smart choices instead of reacting on autopilot.
We know that any relationship has
three central dynamics
happening simultaneously,
each needing to be cared for differently.
There is a relational
dynamic that each person has with themselves
and then the one
between them.
We intentionally balance the male and female viewpoints and energies, bringing awareness to the societal biases and social conditioning we all share.
We guide each individual to understand and own their responsibilities while letting go of their partner’s. This approach fosters mutual support, allowing each other's stated needs to be met and empowering them to grow to their fullest potential.
